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Amnon's Incest. . 1 And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her. 2 And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her. 3 But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David's brother: and Jonadab was a very subtle man. 4 And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king's son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister. 5 And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand. 6 So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand. 7 Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon's house, and dress him meat. 8 So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it, and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes. 9 And she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him. 10 And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother. 11 And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. 12 And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly. 13 And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee. 14 Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. 15 Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone. 16 And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her. 17 Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her. 18 And she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king's daughters that were virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her. 19 And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colours that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying. 20 And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house. We have here a particular account of the abominable wickedness of Amnon in ravishing his sister, a subject not fit to be enlarged upon nor indeed to be mentioned without blushing, that ever any man should be so vile, especially that a son of David should be so. Amnon's character, we have reason to think, was bad in other things; if he had not forsaken God, he would never have been given up to these vile affections. Godly parents have often been afflicted with wicked children; grace does not run in the blood, but corruption does. We do not find that David's children imitated him in his devotion; but his false steps they trod in, and in those did much worse, and repented not. Parents know not how fatal the consequences may be if in any instance they give their children bad examples. Observe the steps of Amnon's sin. I. The devil, as an unclean spirit, put it into his heart to lust after his sister Tamar. Beauty is a snare to many; it was so to her. She was fair, and therefore Amnon coveted her, 2 Samuel 13:1 ; 2 Samuel 13:1 . Those that are peculiarly handsome have no reason, on that account, to be proud, but great reason to stand upon their watch. Amnon's lust was, 1. Unnatural in itself, to lust after his sister, which even natural conscience startles at and cannot think of without horror. Such a spirit of contradiction there is in man's corrupt nature that still it desires forbidden fruit, and the more strongly it is forbidden the more greedily it is desired. Can he entertain the thought of betraying that virtue and honour of which, as a brother, he ought to have been the protector? But what wickedness so vile as not to find admittance into an unsanctified unguarded heart, left to itself? 2. It was very uneasy to him. He was so vexed that he could not gain an opportunity to solicit her chastity (for innocent converse with her was not denied him) that he fell sick, 2 Samuel 13:2 ; 2 Samuel 13:2 . Fleshly lusts are their own punishment, and not only war against the soul, but against the body too, and are the rottenness of the bones. See what a hard master sinners serve, and how heavy his yoke is. II. The devil, as a subtle serpent, put it into his head how to compass this wicked design. Amnon had a friend (so he called him, but he was really an enemy to him), a kinsman, that had in him more of David's blood (for he was his nephew) than of David's spirit, for he was a subtle man, cunning to carry on any bad design, especially an intrigue of this nature, 2 Samuel 13:3 ; 2 Samuel 13:3 . 1. He took notice that Amnon looked ill, and, being a subtle man, concluded that he was love-sick ( 2 Samuel 13:4 ; 2 Samuel 13:4 ), and asks him, " Why art thou, being the king's son, lean from day to day? Why dost thou pine, being the king's eldest son, and heir to the crown. Being the king's son, " (1.) "Thou hast the pleasures of the court to divert thee; take those pleasures then, and with them drive away the sorrow, whatever it is." Content and comfort are not always to be found in royal palaces. With much more reason may we ask dejected and disconsolate saints why they, who are the children of the King of kings and heirs of the crown of life, are thus lean from day to day. (2.) "Thou hast the power of a prince to command what thou wantest and wishest for; use that power therefore, and gratify thyself. Pine not away for that which, lawful or unlawful, thou, being the king's son, mayest have. Quicquid libet licet--Your will is law. " Thus Jezebel to Ahab in a like case ( 1 Kings 21:7 ), Dost not thou govern Israel? The abuse of power is the most dangerous temptation of the great. 2. Amnon having the impudence to own his wicked lust, miscalling it love (I love Tamar ), Jonadab put him in a way to compass his design, 2 Samuel 13:5 ; 2 Samuel 13:5 . Had he been what he pretended (Amnon's friend), he would have startled at the mention of such horrid wickedness, would have laid before him the evil of it, what an offence it was to God and what a wrong to his own soul to entertain such a vile thought, of what fatal consequence it would be to him to cherish and prosecute it; he would have used his subtlety to divert Amnon from it, by recommending some other person to him, whom he might lawfully marry. But he seems not at all surprised at it, objects not either the unlawfulness or the difficulty, the reproach or so much as his father's displeasure, but puts him in the way to get Tamar to his bed-side, and then he might do as he pleased. Note, The case of those is very miserable whose friends, instead of admonishing and reproving them, flatter them and forward them in their sinful ways, and are their counsellors and contrivers to do wickedly. Amnon is already sick, but goes about; he must take upon him to be so ill (and his thin looks will give colour enough to the pretence) as not to be able to get up, and to have no appetite to any thing but just that which pleases his fancy. Dainty meat is abhorred, Job 33:20 . The best dish from the king's table cannot please him; but, if he can eat any thing, it must be from his sister Tamar's fair hand. This is what he is advised to. 3. Amnon followed these directions, and thus got Tamar within his reach: He made himself sick, 2 Samuel 13:6 ; 2 Samuel 13:6 . Thus he lieth in wait secretly, as a lion in his den, to catch the poor, and to draw them into his net, Psalms 10:8-10 . David was always fond of his children, and concerned if any thing ailed them; he no sooner hears that Amnon is sick than he comes himself to visit him. Let parents learn hence to be tender of their children and compassionate towards them. The sick child commonly the mother comforteth ( Isaiah 66:13 ), but let not the father be unconcerned. We may suppose that when David came to see his sick son he gave him good counsel to make a right use of his affliction, and prayed with him, which yet did not alter his wicked purpose. At parting, the indulgent father asks, "Is there any thing thou hast a mind to, that I can procure for thee?" "Yes, Sir," says the dissembling son, "my stomach is weak, and I know not of any thing I can eat, unless it be a cake of my sister Tamar's making, and I cannot be satisfied that it is so unless I see her make it, and it will do me the more good if I eat it at her hand." David saw no reason to suspect any mischief intended. God hid his heart from understanding in this matter. He therefore immediately orders Tamar to go and attend her sick brother, 2 Samuel 13:7 ; 2 Samuel 13:7 . He does it very innocently, but afterwards, no doubt, reflected upon it with great regret. Tamar as innocently goes to her brother's chamber, neither dreading any abuse (why should she from a brother, a sick brother?) nor disdaining, in obedience to her father and love to her brother (though but her half-brother), to be his nurse, 2 Samuel 13:8 ; 2 Samuel 13:9 . Though she was a king's daughter, a great beauty ( 2 Samuel 13:1 ; 2 Samuel 13:1 ), and well dressed ( 2 Samuel 13:18 ; 2 Samuel 13:18 ), yet she did not think it below her to knead cakes and bake them, nor would she have done this now if she had not been used to it. Good house-wifery is not a thing below the greatest ladies, nor ought they to think it a disparagement to them. The virtuous woman, whose husband sits among the elders, yet works willingly with her hands, Proverbs 31:13 . Modern ages have not been destitute of such instances, nor is it so unfashionable as some would make it. Preparing for the sick should be more the care and delight of the ladies than preparing for the nice, charity more than curiosity. 4. Having got her to him, he contrives to have her alone; for the adulterer (much more so vile an adulterer as this) is in care that no eye see him, Job 24:15 . The meat is ready, but he cannot eat while he is looked at by those about him; they must all be turned out, 2 Samuel 13:9 ; 2 Samuel 13:9 . The sick must be humoured, and think they have a privilege to command. Tamar is willing to humour him; her chaste and virtuous soul has not the least thought of that which his polluted breast is full of; and therefore she makes no scruple of being alone with him in the inner chamber, 2 Samuel 13:10 ; 2 Samuel 13:10 . And now the mask is thrown off, the meat is thrown by, and the wicked wretch calls her sister, and yet impudently courts her to come and lie with him, 2 Samuel 13:11 ; 2 Samuel 13:11 . It was a base affront to her virtue to think it possible to persuade her to consent to such wickedness when he knew her behaviour to be always exemplarily modest and virtuous. But it is common for those that live in uncleanness to think others such as themselves, at least tinder to their sparks. III. The devil, as a strong tempter, deafens his ear to all the reasonings with which she resisted his assaults and would have persuaded him to desist. We may well imagine what a surprise and terror it was to the young lady to be thus attacked, how she blushed and how she trembled; yet, in this great confusion, nothing could be said more pertinently, nor with greater strength of argument, than what she said to him. 1. She calls him brother, reminding him of the nearness of the relation, which made it unlawful for him to marry her, much more to debauch her. It was expressly forbidden ( Leviticus 18:9 ) under a severe penalty, Leviticus 20:17 . Great care must be taken lest the love that should be among relations degenerate into lust. 2. She entreats him not to force her, which intimates that she would never consent to it in any degree; and what satisfaction could he take in offering violence? 3. She lays before him the great wickedness of it. It is folly; all sin is so, especially uncleanness. It is wickedness of the worst kind. Such abominations ought not to be committed in Israel, among the professing people of God, that have better statutes than the heathen have. We are Israelites; if we do such things, we are more inexcusable than others, and our condemnation will be more intolerable, for we reproach the Lord, and that worthy name by which we are called. 4. She represents to him the shame of it, which perhaps might influence him more than the sin of it: "For my part, whither shall I cause my shame to go? If it should be concealed, yet I shall blush to think of it as long as I live; and, if ever it be known, how shall I be able to look any of my friends in the face? For thy part, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel, " that is, "Thou wilt be looked upon as an atrocious debauchee, the worst of men; thou wilt lose thy interest in the esteem of all that are wise and good, and so wilt be set aside as unfit to rule, though the first-born; for Israel will never submit to the government of such a fool." Prospect of shame, especially everlasting shame, should deter us from sin. 5. To divert him from his wicked purpose at this time, and (if possible) to get clear of him, she intimates to him that probably the king, rather than he should die for love of her, would dispense with the divine law and let him marry her: not as if she thought he had such a dispensing power, or would pretend to it; but she was confident that, upon notice given to the king by himself of this wicked desire, which he would scarcely have believed from any one else, he would take an effectual course to protect her from him. But all her arts and all her arguments availed not. His proud spirit cannot bear a denial; but her comfort, and honour, and all that was dear to her, must be sacrificed to his brutish and outrageous lust, 2 Samuel 13:14 ; 2 Samuel 13:14 . It is to be feared that Amnon, though young, had long lived a lewd life, which his father either knew not or punished not; for a man could not, of a sudden, arrive at such a pitch of wickedness as this. But is this his love to Tamar? Is this the recompence he gives her for her readiness to attend him in his sickness? Will he deal with his sister as with a harlot? Base villain! God deliver all that are modest and virtuous from such wicked and unreasonable men. IV. The devil, as a tormentor and betrayer, immediately turns his love of her into hatred ( 2 Samuel 13:15 ; 2 Samuel 13:15 ): He hated her with great hatred, greatly, so it is in the margin, and grew as outrageous in his malice as he had been in his lust. 1. He basely turned her out of doors by force; nay, as if he now disdained to touch her with his own hands, he ordered his servant to pull her out and bolt the door after her, 2 Samuel 13:17 ; 2 Samuel 13:17 . Now, (1.) The innocent injured lady had reason to resent this as a great affront, and in some respects (as she says, 2 Samuel 13:16 ; 2 Samuel 13:16 ) worse than the former; for nothing could have been done more barbarous and ill-natured, or more disgraceful to her. Had he taken care to conceal what was done, her honour would have been lost to herself only. Had he gone down on his knees and begged her pardon, it might have been some little reparation. Had he given her time to compose herself after the horrid confusion she was put into, she might have kept her countenance when she went out, and so have kept her counsel. But to dismiss her thus hurried, thus rudely, as if she had done some wicked thing, obliged her, in her own defence, to proclaim the wrong that had been done her. (2.) We may learn from it both the malignity of sin (unbridled passions are as bad as unbridled appetites) and the mischievous consequences of sin (at last, it bites like a serpent); for here we find, [1.] That sins, sweet in the commission, afterwards become odious and painful, and the sinner's own conscience makes them so to himself. Amnon hated Tamar because she would not consent to his wickedness, and so take part of the blame upon herself, but to the last resisted it, and reasoned against it, and so threw all the blame upon him. Had he hated the sin, and loathed himself for it, we might have hoped he was penitent. Godly sorrow worketh indignation, 2 Corinthians 7:11 . But to hate the person he had abused showed that his conscience was terrified, but his heart not at all humbled. See what deceitful pleasures those of the flesh are, how soon they pass away, and turn into loathing; see Ezekiel 23:17 . [2.] That sins, secret in the commission, afterwards become open and public, and the sinners themselves often make them so. Their own tongues fall upon them. The Jewish doctors say that, upon the occasion of this wickedness of Amnon, a law was made that a young man and a young woman should never be alone together; for, said they, if the king's daughter be so used, what will become of the children of private men? 2. We must now leave the criminal to the terrors of his own guilty conscience, and enquire what becomes of the poor victim. (1.) She bitterly lamented the injury she had received, as it was a stain to her honour, though no real blemish to her virtue. She tore her fine clothes in token of her grief, and put ashes upon her head, to deform herself, loathing her own beauty and ornaments, because they had occasioned Amnon's unlawful love; and she went on crying for another's sin, 2 Samuel 13:19 ; 2 Samuel 13:19 . (2.) She retired to her brother Absalom's house, because he was her own brother, and there she lived in solitude and sorrow, in token of her modesty and detestation of uncleanness. Absalom spoke kindly to her, bade her pass by the injury for the present, designing himself to revenge it, 2 Samuel 13:20 ; 2 Samuel 13:20 . It should seem by Absalom's question ( Has Amnon been with thee? ) that Amnon was notorious for such lewd practices, so that it was dangerous for a modest woman to be with him; this Absalom might know, and yet Tamar be wholly ignorant of it. return to ' Top of Page ' <a name="verses-21-29" class="com-number"

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여기서 우리는 암논이 누이를 욕되게 한 가증한 죄악에 대한 상세한 기록을 접한다. 이는 펼쳐 설명하기에도, 얼굴 붉히지 않고 언급하기에도 적합하지 않은 주제다. 다윗의 아들이 이처럼 추악할 수 있었다는 사실이 그러하다. 암논의 성품은 다른 면에서도 이미 나빴으리라 생각된다. 하나님을 저버리지 않았더라면 이런 비천한 정욕에 빠지는 일도 없었을 것이다. 경건한 부모가 사악한 자녀로 인해 고통받는 일은 허다하다. 은혜는 혈통을 타지 않지만 부패는 타고 흐른다. 다윗의 자녀들이 그의 경건을 본받았다는 기록은 없다. 오히려 그의 실족을 밟고 가면서 그것보다 훨씬 심한 악을 행하였고, 회개하지도 않았다. 부모는 자녀에게 나쁜 본을 보이는 일이 얼마나 치명적인 결과를 낳는지 알지 못한다.

암논의 죄가 진행된 과정을 살펴보자.

**I.** 마귀는 부정한 영으로서 암논의 마음속에 누이 다말을 향한 정욕을 집어넣었다. 아름다움은 많은 이에게 올무가 되었는데, 다말의 경우도 그러하였다. 그녀가 아름다웠기에 암논이 그녀를 탐하였다(1절). 유달리 아름다운 외모를 지닌 사람은 그것을 자랑할 이유가 없고, 오히려 더욱 경계하며 깨어 있어야 할 이유가 있다. 암논의 정욕은 다음과 같은 특성을 지녔다.

첫째, 본질적으로 자연을 거스르는 것이었다. 누이를 탐하는 것은 자연적인 양심조차 전율하며 공포로 바라보는 일이다. 타락한 인간 본성 안에는 이처럼 반항적인 정신이 있어서, 언제나 금지된 열매를 탐하며, 더 강하게 금지될수록 더욱 탐욕스럽게 원한다. 그는 형제로서 보호해야 할 그 정숙과 명예를 배반하려는 생각을 품을 수 있었는가? 그러나 거룩하게 지켜지지 않고 방치된 마음속으로 들어오지 못할 악이 어디 있겠는가?

둘째, 그것은 암논 자신에게도 극심한 고통이었다. 그녀의 정숙함을 유혹할 기회조차 얻지 못한—무고한 교제는 허용되었지만—분함에 그는 병이 들었다(2절). 육신의 정욕은 그 자체가 형벌이며, 영혼과 싸울 뿐 아니라 몸과도 싸우고, 뼈를 썩게 한다. 죄인들이 섬기는 주인이 얼마나 가혹한지, 그 멍에가 얼마나 무거운지 보라.

**II.** 마귀는 교활한 뱀으로서 이 사악한 계략을 이루는 방법을 암논의 머릿속에 넣어주었다. 암논에게는 친구가 있었는데—그렇게 불렸지만 실은 원수였다—요나답이라는 친척으로, 다윗의 피를 받은 조카였으나(삼하 3절) 다윗의 정신은 물려받지 못하였다. 그는 간교한 사람으로, 어떤 나쁜 계략, 특히 이런 종류의 책략을 꾸미는 데 능했다.

1. 그는 암논이 안색이 나쁜 것을 알아챘고, 간교한 자답게 그가 상사병에 걸렸다고 단정하였다(4절). "왕자의 몸으로 날마다 왜 그리 수척해지느냐"고 물었다. 왕의 맏아들이요 왕위 계승자인 그가 수척해진다는 것은 이상하였다. "왕자의 몸으로" 누릴 수 있는 궁정의 쾌락이 있지 않느냐고 유혹하거나, 또는 원하는 것은 무엇이든 명령할 수 있는 왕자의 권한을 행사하여 스스로를 만족시키라는 뜻이었다.

2. 암논이 뻔뻔스럽게도 자신의 사악한 정욕을 털어놓으며 그것을 사랑이라 잘못 불렀을 때, 요나답은 그 계획을 이룰 방법을 알려주었다(5절). 그가 진정한 친구였다면 이런 끔찍한 악의 언급에 전율하며, 그것이 하나님께 얼마나 큰 범죄이며 그 자신의 영혼에 얼마나 큰 해악인지, 그런 비천한 생각을 품고 추진하는 것이 결국 어떤 치명적 결과를 낳는지 설명해 주었을 것이다. 그의 간교함을 다말 외에 합법적으로 결혼할 수 있는 다른 사람을 권함으로써 암논을 돌이키는 데 사용했을 것이다. 그러나 그는 그 일에 조금도 놀라지 않았고, 불법성이나 어려움, 수치나 아버지의 진노조차 언급하지 않으면서, 다말을 침대 곁으로 불러올 방법을 가르쳐 주었다. 이처럼 친구라는 사람들이 오히려 죄악의 길을 격려하고 앞장서며 악을 행하는 계략가와 설계자가 되는 경우는 참으로 불쌍한 일이다. 암논은 이미 아픈 상태였으나 돌아다니고 있었다. 더 심하게 아픈 척—수척한 모습이 핑계를 뒷받침해 줄 테니—하여 침대에서 일어나지 못하고 아무것도 먹고 싶지 않은 척하되, 누이 다말의 손에서라면 조금 먹을 수 있을 것 같다고 해야 한다는 것이었다. 병자는 특별 대우를 받고 명령할 특권이 있다고 여긴다.

3. 암논이 이 지시를 따라 다말을 손안에 넣었다(6절). 이처럼 그는 은밀히 숨어 사자처럼 가련한 자를 잡으려 하였다(시편 10:8-10). 다윗은 언제나 자녀들에게 애정이 넘쳤고 그들이 무슨 일이 있으면 걱정하였다. 암논이 아프다는 소식을 듣자마자 직접 문병을 왔다. 부모들은 여기서 자녀들에게 다정하고 불쌍히 여기는 마음을 가져야 한다는 교훈을 배우라. 아픈 자식은 주로 어머니가 위로하지만(사 66:13), 아버지도 무관심해서는 안 된다. 다윗이 아픈 아들을 문병하면서 고난을 바르게 사용하도록 좋은 권면을 하고 함께 기도하였을 것이나, 그것이 암논의 사악한 의도를 바꾸지는 못하였다. 작별 인사를 할 때 인자한 아버지가 "원하는 것이 있느냐"고 묻자, 위선적인 아들은 "위가 약해서 무엇을 먹을 수 있을지 모르겠는데, 누이 다말이 만들어 준다면 과자를 먹을 수 있을 것 같습니다. 그리고 그녀가 만드는 것을 직접 보아야 확실히 먹을 수 있고, 그 손에서 받아먹으면 더 좋겠습니다"라고 하였다. 다윗은 어떤 악한 의도가 있다고 의심할 이유가 없었다. 하나님께서 이 일에 있어서 그의 마음이 깨닫지 못하게 가리신 것이다. 그래서 그는 즉시 다말에게 아픈 오빠를 돌보러 가라고 명하였다(7절). 다윗은 순수한 마음으로 그리하였으나 나중에 틀림없이 깊이 후회하였을 것이다. 다말도 순수한 마음으로 오빠의 방에 갔는데, 어떤 학대도 두려워하지 않았고—오빠에게서, 더구나 아픈 오빠에게서 왜 두려워하겠는가?—비록 이복오빠일지라도 아버지에게 순종하고 오빠를 사랑하는 마음으로 간호사 역할을 기꺼이 맡았다(8-9절). 비록 왕의 딸이요 대단한 미모를 지녔으며 잘 차려입었지만(1절, 18절), 과자를 반죽하고 굽는 일을 자신에게 어울리지 않는다고 여기지 않았다. 그리고 그 일에 익숙하지 않았다면 지금 하려 하지 않았을 것이다. 훌륭한 살림솜씨는 지체 높은 여성에게도 어울리지 않는 것이 아니며, 그것이 자신을 낮추는 일이라 여겨서도 안 된다. 덕스러운 여인은 남편이 장로들 가운데 앉아 있어도 손을 부지런히 움직인다(잠 31:13). 근현대에도 이런 본보기가 드물지 않으며, 일부 사람들이 생각하는 것처럼 구식인 것도 아니다. 아픈 사람을 위해 음식을 준비하는 것이 정교한 음식을 준비하는 것보다, 호기심보다 자선이 귀부인들의 관심과 기쁨이 되어야 마땅하다.

4. 그녀를 손에 넣자 그는 단둘이 있으려 계략을 꾸몄다. 음행자는(더군다나 이처럼 비열한 음행자는) 어떤 눈도 자신을 보지 못하도록 신경 쓴다(욥 24:15). 음식이 다 준비되었지만 주변 사람들이 지켜보는 한 먹을 수 없다며 모두 내보냈다(9절). 병자는 으레 특별 대우를 받을 특권이 있다고 여겨진다. 다말은 기꺼이 그의 변덕을 받아주었다. 그녀의 정숙하고 덕스러운 영혼에는 그의 더러운 가슴이 가득 찬 것에 대한 생각이 조금도 없었다. 그래서 그와 단둘이 안방에 있는 것을 조금도 꺼리지 않았다(10절). 이제 가면은 벗겨지고 음식은 밀쳐졌으며, 그 악한 자는 그녀를 누이라 부르면서도 뻔뻔스럽게 동침하자고 유혹하였다(11절). 그녀의 행실이 늘 모범적으로 정숙하고 단정하다는 것을 알면서도 설득할 수 있다고 생각한 것은 그녀의 덕성에 대한 치욕스러운 모욕이었다. 그러나 불순한 삶을 사는 자들은 타인도 자신과 같다고 생각하거나, 적어도 자신의 불꽃에 탈 감쪽같은 부싯깃이라고 여기는 것이 일반적이다.

**III.** 마귀는 강한 유혹자로서 그녀가 저항하며 단념시키려 한 모든 이성적 설득에 그의 귀를 막았다. 이 젊은 여인이 이런 습격을 받았을 때 어떤 충격과 공포를 느꼈을지, 어떻게 얼굴을 붉히고 어떻게 떨었을지 충분히 상상할 수 있다. 그러나 이 큰 혼란 속에서도 그녀가 그에게 한 말보다 더 적절하고 더 강력한 논증으로 말한 사람은 없을 것이다.

1. 그녀는 그를 오빠라고 불러 그 관계의 근접성을 상기시켰는데, 이것이 그와의 결혼을 불법으로 만들었고, 더군다나 그녀를 욕되게 하는 것은 더욱 그러하였다. 이는 율법에서 명시적으로 금지되었고(레 18:9) 엄한 형벌이 따랐다(레 20:17). 친족 간에 있어야 할 사랑이 정욕으로 타락하지 않도록 크게 조심해야 한다.

2. 그녀는 자신을 강간하지 말 것을 간청하였는데, 이는 어떤 정도로도 결코 동의하지 않겠다는 것을 의미하였다. 폭력을 가하는 것에서 무슨 만족을 얻을 수 있겠는가?

3. 그녀는 그 일의 큰 악함을 그에게 제시하였다. 그것은 어리석음이다. 모든 죄가 그러하며, 특히 음란은 더욱 그러하다. 그것은 최악의 종류의 악이다. 이런 가증한 일은 이교도들보다 더 좋은 규례를 가진 하나님의 백성 이스라엘 안에서 행해져서는 안 된다. 우리는 이스라엘 백성이다. 만약 우리가 이런 일을 한다면 우리는 다른 사람들보다 더욱 변명의 여지가 없고, 우리의 정죄는 더욱 견디기 어려울 것이다. 주님을 욕되게 하고, 우리가 불리는 그 존귀한 이름을 욕되게 하기 때문이다.

4. 그녀는 그 수치를 그에게 설명하였는데, 아마도 죄 자체보다 이것이 그에게 더 영향을 미쳤을 것이다. "나로서는 내 수치를 어디로 가지고 가겠는가? 비록 숨겨진다 해도 살면서 그것을 생각할 때마다 얼굴이 붉어질 것이고, 만약 알려진다면 어떻게 아는 사람 앞에 얼굴을 들 수 있겠는가? 당신으로서는 이스라엘의 어리석은 자 중 하나로 여겨질 것이다"—즉 "당신은 극악한 난봉꾼으로, 최악의 사람으로 간주될 것이다. 지혜롭고 선한 사람들의 존경을 잃고 다스리기에 부적합한 자로 거부될 것이다. 비록 장자라 해도 이스라엘은 결코 이런 어리석은 자의 통치에 복종하지 않을 것이다." 수치에 대한 전망, 특히 영원한 수치에 대한 전망이 우리를 죄에서 막아야 한다.

5. 이 순간 그의 사악한 의도를 돌이키고 그에게서 벗어나기 위해, 왕이 자신에 대한 이런 사악한 욕망의 보고를 받으면—다른 누구로부터는 믿기 어려웠겠지만—그녀를 보호할 효과적인 조치를 취할 것이라 확신하면서, 왕이 그녀와의 결혼을 허락해 줄 것이라고 암시하였다. 그러나 그녀의 모든 방법과 모든 논증이 소용없었다. 그의 오만한 정신은 거절을 감당할 수 없었다. 그녀의 안위와 명예, 그녀에게 소중한 모든 것이 그의 짐승 같은 사나운 정욕에 희생되어야 했다(14절). 암논이 비록 젊었지만 오래전부터 방종한 삶을 살아왔을 것이 틀림없는데, 이를 그의 아버지가 알지 못하였거나 징벌하지 않았다. 갑자기 이런 극도의 악에 이를 수는 없기 때문이다. 그러나 이것이 다말을 향한 그의 사랑인가? 병들어 있을 때 돌봐준 것에 대한 보답이 이것인가? 누이를 창녀처럼 대할 것인가? 비열한 악당이여! 하나님, 정숙하고 덕스러운 모든 이를 이처럼 사악하고 몰염치한 자들로부터 지켜주소서.

**IV.** 마귀는 고문자와 배신자로서 즉시 그녀에 대한 그의 사랑을 미움으로 바꾸었다(15절). 그는 그녀를 크게 미워하였는데, 원문 난외에 "심히"라 되어 있듯이, 그의 미움은 전에 정욕에 사로잡혔던 것만큼이나 격렬하였다.

1. 그는 그녀를 강제로 내쫓았다. 아니, 마치 이제는 자기 손으로 그녀를 건드리기도 싫다는 듯, 종에게 그녀를 끌어내고 문을 잠그라고 명하였다(17절). 이에 대해 다음과 같이 생각해 볼 수 있다. 먼저 무고하게 상처받은 이 여인으로서는 이것이 크나큰 모욕으로, 어떤 면에서는(그녀도 16절에서 말하듯이) 이전 것보다 더 나쁜 것이었다. 이보다 더 잔인하고 비정하거나 더 치욕스러운 일은 없었다. 만약 그가 행한 일을 숨기려 했다면 그녀의 명예는 그녀 자신에게만 잃어버린 것으로 그쳤을 것이다. 만약 그가 무릎을 꿇고 용서를 구했다면 어느 정도 보상이 될 수 있었을 것이다. 만약 그가 그녀에게 그 끔찍한 혼란 이후 마음을 추스를 시간을 주었다면, 나갈 때 표정을 유지하여 비밀을 지킬 수 있었을 것이다. 그러나 마치 그녀가 무슨 악한 일을 한 것처럼 이렇게 서둘러, 이렇게 거칠게 내보냄으로써, 자신을 방어하기 위해 당한 억울함을 알려야 하도록 만들었다.

다음으로 죄의 악성(고삐 풀린 정욕은 고삐 풀린 욕망만큼 나쁘다)과 죄의 해로운 결과(결국 뱀처럼 문다는 것)에서 배울 수 있다. 여기서 우리는 다음을 발견한다. (1) 저지를 때는 달콤했던 죄들이 나중에 혐오스럽고 고통스럽게 되며, 죄인 자신의 양심이 그렇게 만든다는 것이다. 암논은 다말이 그의 악에 동의하지 않아—그리하여 비난의 일부를 그녀 자신에게 돌릴 수 없어—마지막까지 그것을 거부하고 대항하여 온 비난을 그에게 돌렸기 때문에 그녀를 미워하였다. 그가 죄를 미워하고 그것으로 인해 스스로를 혐오하였다면 회개했다는 희망을 가질 수 있었을 것이다. 경건한 슬픔은 분함을 낳는다(고후 7:11). 그러나 자신이 학대한 사람을 미워한다는 것은 양심은 두렵게 되었으나 마음은 전혀 겸비되지 않았음을 보여준다. 육신의 쾌락이 얼마나 기만적인지, 얼마나 빨리 사라지고 혐오로 변하는지 보라(겔 23:17). (2) 저지를 때는 비밀스러운 죄들이 나중에 공개적이고 공공연해지며, 죄인 자신이 종종 그렇게 만든다는 것이다. 그들 자신의 혀가 그들을 공격한다. 유대 의사들은 암논의 이 악행을 계기로 젊은 남녀가 절대 단둘이 있어서는 안 된다는 법이 만들어졌다고 말한다. 그들은 "왕의 딸도 이런 취급을 받는다면 평민의 딸은 어떻겠는가"라고 하였다.

2. 이제 범인은 자신의 죄책감이 주는 공포 속에 놓아두고, 가련한 피해자에게 어떤 일이 일어났는지 살펴보자. (1) 그녀는 당한 상처를 통렬히 애도하였는데, 그것이 자신의 덕성에는 실제 오점이 아닐지라도 명예에는 흠이 되었기 때문이었다. 슬픔의 표시로 아름다운 옷을 찢고 머리에 재를 얹어 자신을 흉하게 하였다. 암논의 불법적인 사랑을 불러일으킨 자신의 아름다움과 장식물을 혐오하면서 다른 사람의 죄로 인해 계속 울며 다녔다(19절). (2) 그녀는 친오빠인 압살롬의 집으로 물러났고, 거기서 정숙함과 불순한 것에 대한 혐오의 표시로 고독과 슬픔 속에 살았다. 압살롬은 그녀에게 다정하게 말하며 지금은 그 상처를 참으라 하였는데, 스스로 복수하기로 작정하였기 때문이었다(20절). 압살롬의 물음("암논이 너와 함께 있었느냐")을 보면 암논이 그런 방종한 행위로 악명 높아서, 정숙한 여성이 그와 함께 있는 것이 위험한 정도였음을 알 수 있다. 이것을 압살롬은 알고 있었지만 다말은 전혀 몰랐을 수 있다.

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S E C O N D S A M U E L CHAP. XIII. The righteous God had lately told David, by Nathan the prophet, that, to chastise him for his son in the matter of Uriah, he would "raise up evil against him out of his own house," ( 2 Samuel 12:11 ; 2 Samuel 12:11 ). And here, in the very next chapter, we find the evil beginning to rise; henceforward he was followed with one trouble after another, which made the latter part of his reign less glorious and pleasant than the former part. Thus God chastened him with the rod of men, yet assured him that his "loving-kindness he would not utterly take away." Adultery and murder were David's sins, and those sins among his children (Amnon defiling his sister Tamar, and Absalom murdering his brother Amnon) were the beginnings of his punishment, and the more grievous because he had reason to fear that his bad example might help to bring them to these wickednesses. In this chapter we have, I. Amnon ravishing Tamar, assisted in his plot to do it by Jonadab his kinsman, and villainously executing it, 2 Samuel 13:1-20 . II. Absalom murdering Amnon for it, 2 Samuel 13:21-39 . Both were great griefs to David, and the more because he was unwittingly made accessory to both, by sending Tamar to Amnon and Amnon to Absalom. return to ' Top of Page ' <a name="verses-1-20" class="com-number"

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사무엘하 13장. 의로우신 하나님께서는 얼마 전 선지자 나단을 통해 다윗에게, 우리야의 일로 말미암아 다윗을 징계하시기 위해 "그의 집에서부터 재앙을 일으키실 것"이라고 말씀하셨다(삼하 12:11). 그리고 바로 다음 장인 이 장에서 우리는 그 재앙이 시작되는 것을 보게 된다. 이때부터 다윗은 잇따른 환난을 겪게 되었고, 그의 치세 후반기는 전반기에 비해 훨씬 덜 영광스럽고 평안하지 못하였다. 이처럼 하나님께서는 사람의 매로 그를 징계하셨으나, 그럼에도 "사랑하는 마음을 거두지는 않겠다"고 확약하셨다. 간음과 살인이 다윗의 죄였고, 그의 자녀들 사이에서 일어난 동일한 종류의 죄들—암논이 누이 다말을 욕되게 함, 압살롬이 형 암논을 살해함—이 그 형벌의 시작이 되었다. 이 죄악들은 특히 더 괴로웠는데, 자신의 나쁜 본보기가 자녀들을 이러한 악행으로 이끄는 데 일조했을지 모른다는 두려움을 다윗 자신이 품어야 했기 때문이다. 이 장에서 우리는 두 가지 사건을 보게 된다. 첫째, 암논이 친척 요나답의 계략을 이용하여 다말을 겁탈하는 사건(1-20절). 둘째, 압살롬이 그 일로 인해 암논을 살해하는 사건(21-39절). 두 사건 모두 다윗에게 큰 슬픔이 되었는데, 특히 그가 자신도 모르게 두 사건 모두에 공모자가 되었기 때문이었다—다말을 암논에게 보냈고, 암논을 압살롬에게 보냄으로써 그러하였다.

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The Plot Against Amnon. . 21 But when king David heard of all these things, he was very wroth. 22 And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar. 23 And it came to pass after two full years, that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal-hazor, which is beside Ephraim: and Absalom invited all the king's sons. 24 And Absalom came to the king, and said, Behold now, thy servant hath sheepshearers; let the king, I beseech thee, and his servants go with thy servant. 25 And the king said to Absalom, Nay, my son, let us not all now go, lest we be chargeable unto thee. And he pressed him: howbeit he would not go, but blessed him. 26 Then said Absalom, If not, I pray thee, let my brother Amnon go with us. And the king said unto him, Why should he go with thee? 27 But Absalom pressed him, that he let Amnon and all the king's sons go with him. 28 Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon's heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant. 29 And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king's sons arose, and every man gat him up upon his mule, and fled. What Solomon says of the beginning of strife is as true of the beginning of all sin, it is as the letting forth of water; when once the flood-gates are plucked up, an inundation follows; one mischief begets another, and it is hard to say what shall be in the end thereof. I. We are here told how David resented the tidings of Amnon's sin: He was very wroth, 2 Samuel 13:21 ; 2 Samuel 13:21 . So he had reason to be, that his own son should do such a wicked thing and draw him to be accessory to it. It would be a reproach to him for not giving him a better education; it would be a blot upon his family, the ruin of his daughter, a bad example to his kingdom, and a wrong to his son's soul. But was it enough for him to be angry? He ought to have punished his son for it, and have put him to open shame; both as a father and as a king he had power to do it. But the LXX. here adds these words: But he saddened not the spirit of his son Amnon, because he loved him, because he was his first-born. He fell into Eli's error, whose sons made themselves vile, and he frowned not on them. If Amnon was dear to him, his punishing him would have been so much the greater punishment to himself for his own uncleanness. But he cannot bear the shame those must submit to who correct that in others which they are conscious of in themselves, and therefore his anger must serve instead of his justice; and this hardens sinners, Ecclesiastes 8:11 . II. How Absalom resented it. He resolves already to do the part of a judge in Israel; and, since his father will not punish Amnon, he will, from a principle, not of justice or zeal for virtue, but of revenge, because he reckons himself affronted in the abuse done to his sister. Their mother was daughter to a heathen prince ( 2 Samuel 3:3 ; 2 Samuel 3:3 ), which perhaps they were upbraided with sometimes by their brethren, as children of a stranger. As such a one Absalom thought his sister was now treated; and, if Amnon thought her fit to be made his harlot, he would think him fit to be made his slave. This enraged him, and nothing less than the blood of Amnon will quench his rage. Here we have, 1. The design conceived: Absalom hated Amnon ( 2 Samuel 13:22 ; 2 Samuel 13:22 ), and he that hateth his brother is a murderer already, and, like Cain, is of that wicked one, 1 John 3:12 ; 1 John 3:15 . Absalom's hatred of his brother's crime would have been commendable, and he might justly have prosecuted him for it by a due course of law, for example to others, and the making of some compensation to his injured sister; but to hate his person, and design his death by assassination, was to put a great affront upon God, by offering to repair the breach of his seventh commandment by the violation of his sixth, as if they were not all alike sacred. But he that said, Do not commit adultery, said also, Do not kill, James 2:11 . 2. The design concealed. He said nothing to Amnon of this matter, either good or bad, appeared as if he did not know it, and maintained towards him his usual civility, only waiting for a fair opportunity to do him a mischief. That malice is the worst, (1.) Which is hidden closely, and has no vent given to it. If Absalom had reasoned the matter with Amnon, he might have convinced him of his sin and brought him to repentance; but, saying nothing, Amnon's heart was hardened, and his own more and more embittered against him; therefore rebuking our neighbour is opposed to hating him in our hearts, Leviticus 19:17 . Let passion have vent and it will spend itself. (2.) Which is gilded over with a show of friendship; so Absalom's was, his words smoother than butter but war in his heart. See Proverbs 26:26 . (3.) Which is harboured long. Two full years Absalom nursed this root of bitterness, 2 Samuel 13:24 ; 2 Samuel 13:24 . It may be, at first, he did not intend to kill his brother (for, if he had, he might have had as fair an opportunity to do it as he had at last), and only waited for an occasion to disgrace him or do him some other mischief; but in time his hatred ripened to this, that he would be no less than the death of him. If the sun going down once upon the wrath gives such place to the devil (as is intimated, Ephesians 4:26 ; Ephesians 4:27 ), what would the sunsets of two full years do? 3. The design laid. (1.) Absalom has a feast at his house in the country, as Nabal had, on occasion of his sheep-shearing, 2 Samuel 13:23 ; 2 Samuel 13:23 . Attentive as Absalom was to his person ( 2 Samuel 14:26 ; 2 Samuel 14:26 ), and as high as he looked, he knew the state of his flocks and looked well to his herds. Those who have no other care about their estates in the country than how to spend them in the town take a ready way to see the end of them. When Absalom had sheep-shearers he would himself be with them. (2.) To this feast he invites the king his father, and all the princes of the blood ( 2 Samuel 13:24 ; 2 Samuel 13:24 ), not only that he might have this opportunity to pay his respects to them, but that he might make himself the more respected among his neighbours. Those that are akin to great folks are apt to value themselves too much on their kindred. (3.) The king would not go himself, because he would not put him to the expense of his entertainment, 2 Samuel 13:25 ; 2 Samuel 13:25 . It seems Absalom had an estate in his own hands, on which he lived like himself; the king had given it to him, but would have him to be a good husband of it: in both these he is an example to parents, when their children have grown up, to give them a competency to live upon, according to their rank, and then to take care that they do not live above it, especially that they be no way accessory to their doing so. It is prudent for young house-keepers to begin as they can hold out, and not to spend the wool upon the shearing of it. (4.) Absalom got leave for Amnon, and all the rest of the king's sons, to come and grace his table in the country, 2 Samuel 13:26 ; 2 Samuel 13:27 . Absalom had so effectually concealed his enmity to Amnon that David saw no reason to suspect any design upon him in that particular invitation: "Let my brother Amnon go;" but this would make the stroke more cutting to David that he was himself drawn in to consent to that which gave the opportunity for it, as before, 2 Samuel 13:7 ; 2 Samuel 13:7 . It seems, David's sons, though grown up, continued to pay such a deference to their father as not to go such a small journey as this without leave. Thus ought children, even when they have become men and women, to honour their parents, consult them, and do nothing material without their consent, much less against their mind. 4. The design executed, 2 Samuel 13:28 ; 2 Samuel 13:29 . (1.) Absalom's entertainment was very plentiful; for he resolves that they shall all be merry with wine, at least concludes that Amnon will be so, for he knew that he was apt to drink to excess. But, (2.) The orders he gave to his servants concerning Amnon, that they should mingle his blood with his wine, were very barbarous. Had he challenged him, and, in reliance upon the goodness of his cause and the justice of God, fought him himself, though that would have been bad enough, yet it would have been more honourable and excusable (our ancient law, in some cases, allowed trial by battle); but to murder him, as he did, was to copy Cain's example, only that the reason made a difference: Abel was slain for his righteousness, Amnon for his wickedness. Observe the aggravations of this sin:-- [1.] He would have Amnon slain when his heart was merry with wine, and he was consequently least apprehensive of danger, least able to resist it, and also least fit to go out of the world; as if his malice aimed to destroy both soul and body, not giving him time to say, Lord, have mercy upon me. What a dreadful surprise hath death been to many, whose hearts have been overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness! [2.] His servants must be employed to do it, and so involved in the guilt. He was to give the word of command-- Smite Amnon; and then they, in obedience to him, and, upon presumption that his authority would bear them out, must kill him. What an impious defiance does he bid to the divine law, when, though the command of God is express, Thou shalt not kill, he bids them kill Amnon, with this warrant, " Have not I commanded you? That is enough. Be courageous, and fear neither God nor man." Those servants are ill taught who obey their masters in contradiction to God, and those are wicked masters who have taught them to do so. Those are too obsequious that will damn their souls to please their masters, whose big words cannot secure them from God's wrath. Masters must always command their servants as those that know they also have a Master in heaven. [3.] He did it in the presence of all the king's sons, of whom it is said ( 2 Samuel 8:18 ; 2 Samuel 8:18 ) that they were chief rulers; so that it was an affront to public justice which they had the administration of, and to the king his father whom they represented, and a contempt of that sword which should have been a terror to his evil deeds, while his evil deeds, on the contrary, were a terror to those that bore it. [4.] There is reason to suspect that Absalom did this, not only to revenge his sister's quarrel, but to make way for himself to the throne, which he was ambitious of, and which he would stand fair for if Amnon the eldest son was taken off. When the word of command was given Absalom's servants failed not to execute it, being buoyed up with an opinion that their master, being now next heir to the crown (for Chileab was dead, as bishop Patrick thinks), would save them from harm. Now the threatened sword is drawn in David's house which should not depart from it. First, His eldest son falls by it, himself being, by his wickedness, the cause of it, and his father, by his connivance, accessory to it. Secondly, All his sons flee from it, and come home in terror, not knowing how far their brother Absalom's bloody design might extend. See what mischief sin makes in families. return to ' Top of Page ' <a name="verses-30-39" class="com-number"

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솔로몬이 다툼의 시작에 대해 말한 것이 모든 죄의 시작에 대해서도 마찬가지로 참되다. 그것은 물을 터뜨리는 것 같아서, 홍수문이 한번 열리면 범람이 뒤따른다. 하나의 재앙이 또 다른 재앙을 낳으며, 그 끝이 어떻게 될지 말하기 어렵다.

**I.** 우리는 여기서 다윗이 암논의 죄에 대한 소식을 어떻게 받아들였는지 들었다. 그는 크게 노하였다(21절). 자신의 아들이 그런 사악한 일을 저질러 자신도 그 일에 공모자로 만들었으니 그럴 만도 하였다. 그것은 더 나은 교육을 하지 못한 자신에게 치욕이 되고, 가문에 오점이 되며, 딸을 망치고, 왕국에 나쁜 본보기가 되고, 아들의 영혼에 해악이 될 것이었다. 그러나 화를 내는 것으로 충분하였는가? 그는 아들을 처벌하고 공개적인 수치를 주었어야 했다. 아버지로서도, 왕으로서도 그럴 권한이 있었다. 그러나 칠십인역은 여기에 이런 말을 첨가하고 있다. "그러나 그는 아들 암논의 마음을 슬프게 하지 않았으니, 그를 사랑하기 때문이었고, 그가 장자였기 때문이었다." 그는 엘리의 실수를 반복하였는데, 엘리의 아들들이 스스로를 더럽혔어도 그가 그들을 꾸짖지 않은 것과 같다(삼상 2:12-29). 만약 암논이 그에게 소중하다면, 그를 처벌함으로써 자신의 불순함에 대한 더 큰 벌이 되었을 것이다. 그러나 그는 다른 사람들에게서 바로잡아야 할 것을 자신도 의식하고 있는 사람이 감수해야 하는 수치를 견딜 수 없었다. 그래서 그의 분노가 그의 정의 대신에 사용되어야 했다. 이것이 죄인들을 완고하게 만든다(전 8:11).

**II.** 압살롬이 이를 어떻게 받아들였는지 보자. 그는 이미 이스라엘에서 재판관의 역할을 하기로 결심하였다. 아버지가 암논을 처벌하지 않으니 자신이 하겠다는 것이었는데, 정의나 덕을 향한 열심이 아니라 복수심에서, 누이에게 가해진 모욕이 자신에게도 모욕이 된다고 여겼기 때문이었다. 그들의 어머니는 이방 왕의 딸이었는데(삼하 3:3), 아마도 형제들로부터 이방인의 자녀라는 말을 듣기도 하였을 것이다. 압살롬은 암논이 자기 누이를 그처럼 창녀 취급했으니, 자신도 그를 노예 취급하기로 작정하였다. 이것이 그를 격분시켰고, 암논의 피 외에는 그의 분노를 끌 수 없었다. 여기서 우리는 다음을 보게 된다.

1. **계획의 잉태**: 압살롬이 암논을 미워하였다(22절). 형제를 미워하는 자는 이미 살인자이며 가인처럼 그 악한 자에게 속한 것이다(요일 3:12, 15). 압살롬이 형의 죄악을 미워하는 것은 칭찬받을 만했고, 정당한 법적 절차로 그를 기소하여 다른 사람들에게 경고가 되게 하고 상처받은 누이에게 어느 정도 보상을 하게 할 수도 있었을 것이다. 그러나 그의 사람을 미워하고 암살로 그의 죽음을 계획하는 것은 하나님께 큰 모욕이었다. 하나님의 일곱 번째 계명을 어긴 것을 여섯 번째 계명을 위반함으로써 갚으려 한 것은, 마치 그것들이 같은 정도로 신성하지 않은 것처럼 행동하는 것이었다. 그러나 "간음하지 말라"고 하신 분이 "살인하지 말라"고도 하셨다(약 2:11).

2. **계획의 은폐**: 그는 이 일에 대해 암논에게 좋은 말도 나쁜 말도 하지 않았고, 그것을 모르는 것처럼 행동하며 그에게 평소의 예의를 유지하면서 해칠 좋은 기회만 기다렸다. 악의가 가장 나쁜 것은 (1) 은밀히 감추어지고 토로되지 않을 때이다. 압살롬이 암논에게 그 문제를 따졌더라면, 그를 죄에 대해 설득하고 회개로 이끌었을 수도 있었다. 그러나 아무 말도 하지 않음으로써 암논의 마음은 굳어졌고, 자신의 마음은 그를 향해 더욱 독해졌다. 그러므로 이웃을 책망하는 것이 마음으로 그를 미워하는 것과 반대되는 것이다(레 19:17). 열정이 분출되면 스스로 소진된다. (2) 우정의 가면으로 도금될 때이다. 압살롬의 것이 그러하였으니, 그의 말은 기름보다 부드러웠으나 속에는 전쟁이 있었다(잠 26:26). (3) 오래 품어질 때이다. 압살롬은 이 쓴 뿌리를 꼬박 2년이나 키웠다(23절). 처음에는 형을 죽이려 하지 않았을 수도 있고—만약 그랬다면 마지막에만큼 좋은 기회가 얼마든지 있었다—다만 창피를 주거나 다른 해를 끼칠 기회를 기다렸을 것이다. 그러나 시간이 지나면서 그의 미움은 형제의 죽음밖에는 만족할 수 없을 정도로 무르익었다. 분노로 해가 한 번 지는 것이 마귀에게 그토록 틈을 주는데(엡 4:26-27), 꼬박 2년의 저녁이 얼마나 큰 틈을 주었겠는가?

3. **계획의 수립**: (1) 압살롬은 시골에 있는 자기 집에서 나발처럼 양 털 깎는 때를 맞아 잔치를 벌였다(23절). 외모에 얼마나 세심한 그였고(삼하 14:26), 얼마나 높은 곳을 바라보았지만, 그는 자기 양 떼의 상태를 알았고 가축을 잘 돌보았다. 시골에 재산이 있으면서도 도시에서 탕진하는 일 외에 다른 관심이 없는 사람들은 그것의 끝을 보는 쉬운 길을 택하는 것이다. 압살롬은 양 털을 깎을 때 직접 그곳에 있었다. (2) 이 잔치에 아버지 왕과 모든 왕족을 초대하였는데(24절), 그들에게 경의를 표할 기회를 삼았을 뿐 아니라, 이웃들 사이에서 자신을 더 존중받게 하려는 의도도 있었다. 위대한 사람들의 친척인 자들은 친척 관계에 지나치게 자부심을 갖는 경향이 있다. (3) 왕은 자신이 가지 않으려 하였는데, 그에게 접대비 부담을 주지 않으려 하였기 때문이었다(25절). 압살롬은 스스로 살아가기에 충분한 재산을 자신의 명의로 갖고 있었고, 왕이 그것을 주었지만 잘 관리하기를 원했다. 이 두 가지 모두에서 그는 부모들에게 본보기가 되는데, 자녀들이 성장하였을 때 그들의 신분에 맞는 적절한 생활수단을 주되, 그것을 넘어 살지 않도록—특히 어떤 방식으로든 그렇게 하는 데 공모자가 되지 않도록—돌보는 것이다. 젊은 살림꾼들은 장기적으로 감당할 수 있는 범위 내에서 살기 시작하는 것이 현명하며, 양 털을 깎는다고 양을 없애버려서는 안 된다. (4) 압살롬은 암논과 나머지 왕자들을 모두 데려가 시골에서 자기 식탁을 빛내도록 허락을 받았다(26-27절). 압살롬은 암논에 대한 적의를 너무나 효과적으로 숨겼기 때문에 다윗은 그 특별한 초청에 어떤 계략이 있다고 의심할 이유가 없었다. "형 암논을 보내주십시오." 그러나 이것이 다윗에게 더 쓴 타격이 되었는데, 자신이 그 기회를 제공한 일에 동의하도록 끌려들어갔기 때문이었다. 이전에도 그러했듯이(7절). 다윗의 아들들이 비록 다 성인이 되었어도 아버지에 대한 경의를 유지하여, 이런 짧은 여행도 허락 없이는 가지 않는 것처럼 보인다. 이처럼 자녀들은 성인이 되어서도 부모를 공경하고, 그들과 의논하며, 그들의 뜻에 반하는 것은 말할 것도 없고 중요한 일에 있어서 동의 없이 아무것도 하지 말아야 한다.

4. **계획의 실행**(28-29절): (1) 압살롬의 접대는 매우 풍성하였다. 그는 모두가 포도주로 즐거워하게 하려 하였는데, 적어도 암논은 그러할 것이라고—그가 과음하는 경향이 있다는 것을 알았으니—결론지었다. (2) 그러나 암논의 피를 그의 포도주에 섞으라는 종들에게 내린 명령은 매우 잔인한 것이었다. 만약 그가 그에게 도전하여 하나님의 선하심과 자신의 원인의 정당성을 믿고 직접 싸웠더라면, 비록 그것도 충분히 나쁜 일이겠지만, 더 명예롭고 변명의 여지가 있었을 것이다. 그러나 암살하는 것은 가인의 본보기를 따르는 것이었다. 다만 이유에서 차이가 있을 뿐이다. 아벨은 그의 의로움 때문에, 암논은 그의 사악함 때문에 살해되었다.

이 죄의 가중 상황을 살펴보자. 첫째, 암논의 마음이 포도주로 즐거울 때, 즉 위험을 가장 알아채지 못하고 저항할 수 없으며 이 세상을 떠날 준비가 가장 되어 있지 않을 때 죽이려 했다는 것이다. 마치 그의 악의가 영혼과 몸 모두를 파멸시키려는 것처럼, "주여 자비를 베푸소서"라고 말할 시간도 주지 않으려 하였다. 과식과 만취로 마음이 눌린 많은 사람에게 죽음이 얼마나 두려운 기습이 되었는가! 둘째, 종들을 시켜 하도록 하여 그 죄책에 끌어들였다는 것이다. 그가 명령의 말을 해야 했고—"암논을 쳐라"—그러면 그들이 그에게 복종하여, 그의 권위가 자신들을 보호해 줄 것이라는 가정 하에 그를 죽여야 했다. 하나님의 법은 분명히 "살인하지 말라"고 하는데도 "암논을 죽여라. 내가 명하지 않았느냐? 이것으로 충분하다. 용감하라, 하나님도 사람도 두려워하지 말라"고 명하니 신성한 율법에 얼마나 불경스러운 도전인가! 주인들이 하나님께 어긋나게 명할 때 복종하는 종들은 잘못 가르침을 받은 것이고, 그렇게 가르친 주인들은 사악하다. 자신의 영혼을 주인을 기쁘게 하기 위해 팔려는 자들은 지나치게 순종적인 것이며, 그들의 큰소리치는 말이 하나님의 진노로부터 보호해 줄 수 없다. 주인들은 항상 자신들도 하늘에 주인이 계심을 아는 자들로서 종들에게 명해야 한다. 셋째, 그가 왕의 아들들—삼하 8:18에 나오듯 그들은 통치자들이었다—모두의 면전에서 그리하였다는 것이다. 이는 그들이 집행하는 공의와 그들이 대표하는 아버지 왕에 대한 모욕이었으며, 그들의 악행에 공포가 되어야 할 칼을 업신여기는 것이었다. 반면 그의 악행이 그것을 든 자들에게 오히려 공포가 되었다. 넷째, 압살롬이 이것을 누이의 원수를 갚기 위해서만이 아니라 왕좌로 나아가기 위해서도 한 것이라는 의심이 있다는 것이다. 그는 야망적이었고, 장자 암논이 제거된다면 왕위에 가장 가까이 서게 될 것이었다. 명령이 내려지자 압살롬의 종들은 지체 없이 집행하였는데, 자신들의 주인이 이제 왕위의 다음 계승자이므로—길르압은 죽었다고 패트릭 주교가 생각하는 바와 같이—자신들을 해로부터 보호해 줄 것이라는 생각에 고무되었다. 이제 다윗의 집에서 떠나지 않을 것이라 한 위협받은 칼이 뽑혔다. 먼저 그의 장자가 그것에 쓰러졌는데, 그 자신의 사악함으로 인해 그 원인이 되었고, 아버지는 묵인함으로써 그 공모자가 되었다. 그리고 모든 아들들이 그것으로부터 도망하여, 형 압살롬의 피비린내 나는 계략이 어디까지 미칠지 알 수 없어 공포에 떨며 집으로 돌아왔다. 죄가 가정에 얼마나 큰 재앙을 일으키는지 보라.

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Amnon's Death; Absalom's Flight. . 30 And it came to pass, while they were in the way, that tidings came to David, saying, Absalom hath slain all the king's sons, and there is not one of them left. 31 Then the king arose, and tare his garments, and lay on the earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes rent. 32 And Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David's brother, answered and said, Let not my lord suppose that they have slain all the young men the king's sons; for Amnon only is dead: for by the appointment of Absalom this hath been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar. 33 Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king's sons are dead: for Amnon only is dead. 34 But Absalom fled. And the young man that kept the watch lifted up his eyes, and looked, and, behold, there came much people by the way of the hill side behind him. 35 And Jonadab said unto the king, Behold, the king's sons come: as thy servant said, so it is. 36 And it came to pass, as soon as he had made an end of speaking, that, behold, the king's sons came, and lifted up their voice and wept: and the king also and all his servants wept very sore. 37 But Absalom fled, and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. And David mourned for his son every day. 38 So Absalom fled, and went to Geshur, and was there three years. 39 And the soul of king David longed to go forth unto Absalom: for he was comforted concerning Amnon, seeing he was dead. Here is, I. The fright that David was put into by a false report brought to Jerusalem that Absalom had slain all the king's sons, 2 Samuel 13:30 ; 2 Samuel 13:30 . It is common for fame to make bad worse; and the first news of such a thing as this represents it as more dreadful than afterwards it proves. Let us not therefore be afraid of evil tidings, while they want confirmation, but, when we hear the worst, hope the best, at least hope better. However, this false news gave as much affliction to David, for the present, as if it had been true; he tore his garments, and lay on the earth, while as yet it was only a flying story, 2 Samuel 13:31 ; 2 Samuel 13:31 . It was well that David had grace; he had need enough of it, for he had strong passions. II. The rectifying of the mistake in two ways:-- 1. By the sly suggestions of Jonadab, David's nephew, who could tell him, Amnon only is dead, and not all the king's sons ( 2 Samuel 13:32 ; 2 Samuel 13:33 ), and could tell him too that it was done by the appointment of Absalom, and designed from the day Amnon forced his sister Tamar. What a wicked man was he, if he knew all this or had any cause to suspect it, that he did not make David acquainted with it sooner, that means might be used to make up the quarrel, or at least that David might not throw Amnon into the mouth of danger by letting him go to Absalom's house. If we do not our utmost to prevent mischief, we make ourselves accessory to it. If we say, Behold, we knew it not; doth not he that pondereth the heart consider whether we did or no? See Proverbs 24:11 ; Proverbs 24:12 . It is well if Jonadab was not as guilty of Amnon's death as he was of his sin; such friends do those prove who are hearkened to as counsellors to do wickedly: he that would not be so kind as to prevent Amnon's sin would not be so kind as to prevent his ruin, when, it should seem, he might have done both. 2. By the safe return of all the king's sons except Amnon. They and their attendants were speedily discovered by the watch ( 2 Samuel 13:34 ; 2 Samuel 13:35 ), and soon arrived, to show themselves alive, but to bring the certain sad news that Absalom had murdered their brother Amnon. The grief David had been in for that which was not made him the better able to bear that which was, by giving him a sensible occasion, when he was undeceived, to thank God that all his sons were not dead: yet that Amnon was dead, and slain by his own brother is such a treacherous barbarous manner, was enough to put the king and court, the king and kingdom, into real mourning. Sorrow is never more reasonable than when there is sin in the case. III. Absalom's flight from justice: Absalom immediately fled, 2 Samuel 13:34 ; 2 Samuel 13:34 . He was now as much afraid of the king's sons as they were of him; they fled from his malice, he from their justice. No part of the land of Israel could shelter him. The cities of refuge gave no protection to a wilful murderer. Though David had let Amnon's incest go unpunished, Absalom could not promise himself his pardon for this murder; so express was the law in this case, and so well known David's justice, and his dread of blood-guiltiness. He therefore made the best of his way to his mother's relations, and was entertained by his grandfather Talmai, king of Geshur ( 2 Samuel 13:37 ; 2 Samuel 13:37 ), and there he was protected three years ( 2 Samuel 13:38 ; 2 Samuel 13:38 ), David not demanding him, and Talmai not thinking himself obliged to send him back unless he were demanded. IV. David's uneasiness for his absence. He mourned for Amnon a good while ( 2 Samuel 13:37 ; 2 Samuel 13:37 ), but, he being past recall, time wore off that grief: he was comforted concerning Amnon. It also wore off too much his detestation of Absalom's sin; instead of loathing him as a murderer, he longs to go forth to him, 2 Samuel 13:39 ; 2 Samuel 13:39 . At first he could not find in his heart to do justice on him; now he can almost find in his heart to take him into his favour again. This was David's infirmity. Something God saw in his heart that made a difference, else we should have thought that he, as much as Eli, honoured his sons more than God. return to ' Top of Page ' 2 Samuel 2Sa 12 2 Samuel 2Sa 2 Samuel 2Sa 14 Footnotes: Copyright Statement These files are public domain and are a derivative of an electronic edition that is available on the Christian Classics Ethereal Library Website. Bibliographical Information Henry, Matthew. "Complete Commentary on 2 Samuel 13". 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**I.** 다윗이 압살롬이 왕자들을 모두 죽였다는 거짓 보고로 충격에 빠진 것을 보게 된다(30절). 나쁜 소식은 실제보다 더 나쁘게 전해지는 것이 흔하다. 이런 일에 대한 첫 보고는 나중에 밝혀지는 것보다 더 두렵게 표현된다. 그러므로 아직 확인되지 않은 나쁜 소식을 두려워하지 말고, 최악의 소식을 들었을 때도 더 좋기를, 적어도 더 나쁘지 않기를 바라자. 그러나 이 거짓 소식은 마치 사실인 것처럼 일시적으로 다윗에게 동일한 슬픔을 주었다. 그는 아직 떠도는 이야기일 뿐인데도 옷을 찢고 땅에 엎드렸다(31절). 다윗이 은혜를 입은 것은 다행이었다. 그는 강한 열정을 가졌기에 충분히 그럴 필요가 있었다.

**II.** 두 가지 방법으로 실수가 바로잡혔다.

1. 다윗의 조카 요나답의 교활한 암시를 통해서였다. 그는 다윗에게 왕자들이 모두 죽은 것이 아니라 암논만 죽었다고 말할 수 있었고(32-33절), 그것이 압살롬의 계획에 따라 다말을 욕보인 날부터 정해졌다고도 말할 수 있었다. 이 모든 것을 알고 있었거나 의심할 이유가 있었다면, 다윗에게 미리 알려 화해의 방법을 찾게 하거나, 적어도 다윗이 암논을 위험 속으로 밀어 넣지 않도록 해야 했는데 그렇게 하지 않은 것은 얼마나 사악한 일인가? 우리가 재앙을 막기 위해 최선을 다하지 않으면 그 공모자가 되는 것이다. "보라, 우리가 알지 못하였노라"고 말한들 마음을 달아보시는 분이 우리가 알고 있었는지 아닌지를 살피지 않으시겠는가(잠 24:11-12)? 요나답이 암논의 죄에 대해 공모한 것처럼 암논의 파멸에도 마찬가지로 죄를 범했을 가능성이 있다. 악하게 행하도록 권고를 들어주는 그런 친구들은 이렇게 증명된다. 암논의 죄를 막을 만큼 친절하지 않았던 그가 암논의 파멸을 막는 것도 그만큼 친절하지 않았는데, 그것을 막을 수 있었을 것으로 보인다.

2. 암논을 제외한 모든 왕자들의 안전한 귀환을 통해서였다. 그들과 수행원들이 파수꾼에게 신속히 발견되었고(34-35절), 곧 나타나서 자신들이 살아 있음을 보여주었다. 그러나 압살롬이 형 암논을 살해하였다는 확실하고 슬픈 소식을 가지고 왔다. 없었던 일에 대해 슬퍼하던 것이 오히려 확인이 되자, 그가 오해를 풀었을 때 모든 아들들이 죽지 않은 것에 대해 하나님께 감사하는 명백한 계기를 줌으로써 사실을 더 잘 감당할 수 있게 해주었다. 그러나 암논이 죽었다는 것, 그것도 이처럼 배신적이고 잔인한 방식으로 친형제에게 살해되었다는 것은 왕과 궁중, 왕과 왕국 전체를 진실된 애도에 빠지게 하기에 충분하였다. 슬픔은 죄가 연루된 경우만큼 합당한 때가 없다.

**III.** 압살롬이 법을 피해 도망한 것을 보게 된다. 압살롬은 즉시 도망하였다(34절). 그는 이제 왕자들이 자신을 두려워하는 것만큼이나 그들의 정의를 두려워하였다. 그들은 그의 악의를 피해 도망하고, 그는 그들의 정의를 피해 도망하였다. 이스라엘 땅 어느 곳도 그를 숨겨줄 수 없었다. 도피성은 고의적인 살인자를 보호하지 않았다. 다윗이 암논의 근친상간을 처벌하지 않았어도, 압살롬은 이 살인에 대해 용서를 기대할 수 없었다. 이 경우에 율법이 너무도 명시적이었고, 다윗의 정의와 유혈에 대한 공포가 너무도 잘 알려져 있었기 때문이었다. 그래서 그는 어머니 쪽 친척들에게로 도망하여 외조부 달매 곧 그술 왕에게 대접을 받았다(37절). 그곳에서 그는 3년간 보호를 받았는데(38절), 다윗이 그를 요구하지 않았고, 달매도 요구받지 않는 한 돌려보낼 의무가 없다고 생각하였다.

**IV.** 압살롬의 부재에 대한 다윗의 불편함을 보게 된다. 그는 암논을 오랫동안 애도하였지만(37절), 그가 돌이킬 수 없는 과거의 일이 되자 시간이 그 슬픔을 씻어주었다. 그는 암논에 대해 위로를 받았다. 그러나 그것이 또한 압살롬의 죄에 대한 혐오를 너무 많이 씻어버렸다. 살인자로서 그를 혐오하는 대신 그에게로 가고 싶어하게 되었다(39절). 처음에는 그에게 정의를 행할 마음이 없었더니, 이제는 그를 다시 은총에 받아들일 마음까지 거의 생겼다. 이것이 다윗의 연약함이었다. 하나님께서 그의 마음속에서 무언가를 보셨기 때문에 차이가 있었을 것이다. 그렇지 않다면 그가 엘리만큼이나 하나님보다 아들들을 더 귀히 여겼다고 생각했을 것이다.

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